Does anyone know a website to help fill out the 501 tax exempt forms from the IRS?

I need clear and consise instructions!

Go to the IRS website. This will give you instructions and other information as well as the form if needed. Otherwise you might try one of the 'tax' websites like H&R Block. www.irs.gov
Actually the IRS has a site which gives you all the information you need. It is www.irs.gov. However, you do know that the language itself is the reason so many people have problems filling out the info. There should be a non profit organization in your community, such as a non profit association of some sort that should be able to help you with this. It is not difficult to complete, just difficult to understand the questions they are asking. I have done this on many occasions. I am a consultant for start-up non profits.
I suspect you have learned that the application, Form 1023, is long, detailed and can be quite the bear to complete.
yeah, www.irs.gov
GO to the IRS.gov... it should be help..